Vital Life Tools | Posted On 6 March 2021 | Posted By Erin Ann Barcellos

Are you feeling stuck in your life? 

Do you want to get your life flowing in a positive direction, but aren’t sure what to do or which direction to go in?

Wouldn’t it be great if you were able to get the clarity and answers you need? What if you were able to get your life flowing again while confidently knowing exactly what to do and which direction to head in?

I bet that would be a saving grace! I’ve been where you are. I know how paralyzing it can be to feel stuck and how desperate you might feel for answers. I bet you’re thinking that if you just knew what to do, all of your problems would be solved.

Well, guess what?! I have some answers for you! And, I am here to tell you that your circumstances can lead you to a life better than you ever possibly imagined.

That’s right! The experiences you are having right now can turn from hopeless to hopeful in a matter of moments, and I want to help you do just that.

Here are 5 powerful ways to get the clarity you seek and move your life in a positive direction:

Everything happens for a reason. Even uncomfortable situations contain a hidden purpose or blessing. 

When life gives you lemons, you can always make lemonade. You might not even realize how much you love lemonade until you have no other choice but to make it.

Our lives have hidden messages and blessings for us in every situation. The discomfort we experience at times is no exception. The answers you seek are within your experiences. 

When you allow yourself to go deep within, take an honest look at what’s happening, and listen carefully to what your life is trying to tell you, it will tell you everything you need to know.

When you become so in tune with your own life, and the universal flow that is present within it, you will be able to turn every situation into an opportunity.

My guess is that with the situation you’re in now, you are probably expecting a certain outcome and not fully listening to what your life is trying to tell you. Life doesn’t always turn out the way we expect it. But what if you’re missing a huge blessing by focussing too much on what you’re missing out on?

The key here is to get in sync with your life exactly the way that it is and then feel out the direction it is trying to take you in.

Each and every one of us is a beautiful soul who chose to come into a body with the aim of reaching our full potential. Your Soul Self is the radiant, loving version of you and is the place where all of your dreams, gifts, and passions live.

We are not taught to prioritize the things that our soul deeply longs for. Many things in our world actually teach us to conform to structures and systems that keep our Soul Self oppressed. Often we are taught to view ourselves as less than and that it is wrong or unacceptable to let our authentic self shine.

Your Soul Self wants to be let out of the cage! It wants to lead you in the direction of your heart’s truest desires and bring you the happiness and fulfillment you desire and deserve.

The deepest yearnings in your heart have caused your Soul Self to start to awaken. As this happens, it causes anything that is not in alignment with your dreams, to start to feel like it’s suffocating you. It’s your Soul Self that feels like it can’t breathe. Your Soul Self wants to break free, and shake off anything in your life that’s been keeping it locked up.

Give yourself permission to give your Soul Self a voice. Give it space in your life to flourish.

The results? Expansion, happiness, fulfillment, flow, abundance, and creativity. Now isn’t that exactly what you are wanting?

As souls living in bodies, we are all intuitive by nature. It is one of our inherent qualities as human beings and when developed, can open the door to confidence, clarity, and a sense of inner stability.

The Oxford definition of intuition is “the ability to understand something immediately, without the need for conscious reasoning.” Now doesn’t that sound like a quality you would want to develop?

Developing your intuition is like learning a new language. The language you’re learning is the language of unconditional love and Divine wisdom. 

That’s right. There’s a hidden language that is always present and will guide you to peace, clarity, and fulfillment. You just have to learn how to speak the language. And when you become fluent in it, you’ll confidently know what to do in any situation - no matter what life throws at you!

The reason why our soul incarnates over and over is that we as human beings are in the process of learning important soul lessons and how to break free from karma and patterns. Buddhism talks about our soul’s journey as the process of enlightenment. Enlightenment is becoming free of the cycles of suffering.

As long as we are human, we have work to do. Being human is all about learning how to transcend our realities and consciousness into the highest form of love. We must pay attention when patterns and suffering show up in our lives. We must then do whatever we can to break free from these cycles. 

Sometimes we can be blind to how our patterns are causing us pain or have no idea where to begin when it comes to healing and releasing them. Our patterns can be rooted in our childhood or past lives, or can even be patterns that we adopted from our family’s lineage. No matter where they come from, they must be released if we truly want to become unstuck and no longer find ourselves in the same situations repeatedly.

When we successfully release these patterns, we can experience life from a whole new place of expansiveness and possibilities. The freedom that is experienced is an absolute miracle.

The biggest piece of advice I can give you when it comes to breaking free of patterns is to get help with this. We are not meant to do it alone. Having a support system in place will be a key component to your success, and the results are well worth your efforts.

You most likely have been feeling stuck because your life is trying to tell you that there is some kind of change that is needed. This can be a minor change or a big change. Either way, the negative emotions that you have been feeling are indicators that there is something taking place in your life that is not in alignment with your true desires. 

You are worthy and deserving of living a life that is in alignment with your passions and dreams. Life is too short to stay stuck in situations that are not peaceful or meaningful to you. When you listen carefully to your life, as stated above, you can receive insight into the areas of your life that are calling for change.

Whether your heart is leading you toward subtle shifts or big ones, do not hesitate to take action. As soon as you have clarity on what kind of changes your life is asking of you, begin to implement those changes into your life. Not taking action is the same as saying that things are okay the way that they are. And that’s not the case, is it? Otherwise, you probably wouldn’t be reading this article. 

Change can be scary. Sometimes it takes courage and determination. Sometimes it requires us to let go of old habits, and to continue forward, even if others don’t understand. However, your life is calling for you to make positive changes and live a life that lets your Soul Self shine! 

Of course you will rise to the occasion. Isn't it exactly what you've been asking for all along?

Now that you know these 5 key steps, take action upon these things like your life depends on it - because living a happy, fulfilling and joy-filled life definitely does.

If you find that you need any support in going deeper into these areas or learning how to implement these changes into your life, please reach out to me. I am here as your support system and would love nothing more than to be by your side on this journey.

I am here to help you tune into the deeper messages of your life, strengthen your intuition, release the patterns that have been keeping you stuck, and create the life you’ve been dreaming of.

By taking these powerful steps you will certainly achieve the clarity you are searching for and be able to confidently move forward in life. The possibilities that are around the corner for you are amazing.

It's up to you if you're willing to do what it takes to claim them.